Goodbye July 2017

Goodbye July,

and hello August. I bet in a few weeks, the stores will be filled with Christmas stuff. Crazy! But you know what? Since the weather is really getting on my nerves, it may as well be fall soon. I’m still off work until Wednesday and I’m just chilling. Madness and stress will be back soon enough, so I’m enjoying these last few days. Between us, I really don’t want to go back to work. If only I found a way to get rich without having to do anything, or at least nothing I have to leave my bed for – that would be amazing.

But Anyway, July is over and I definitely spent some great time with my friends. One of them got married and had her baby, and even though it’s all not for me, I am always really happy for my girls. There was a super fun party night that I will remember for a long time. It was just perfect. Everyone was in a great mood, there was lots of singing, dancing, drinking and it’s just great when everybody gets along perfectly and gives it their all. Unfortunately, these nights don’t happen often anymore, but the more special are those rare occasions. We also went to the movies, out for dinner, had breakfast, just chilled and stuffed our faces with yummy food and all those lovely things you do with friends.

I also reconnected with my brother a bit which is nice and I managed to visit all my grandparents. It’s nice to see how happy it makes them when I stop by. I got a new phone, after killing mine for good – yes, I wanted to punch myself in the face for it – so all is good. I honestly can’t survive without a proper one, which is not great but what can I say, we’re just inseparable. And I know this is weird to mention, but I went to McDonals, something I hardly do, and tried part of their new menu and OMG, it was fantastic. Yup, it’s the little things that matter and make me happy. Seriously, you just have to taste their Lemon Kiss lemonade cause it’s sooo good.

So overall, I did a lot of eating and chilling, binge-watched a lot of shows as usual and enjoyed every second I spend with the people I love. So I guess it wasn’t a bad month and vacation made it even better. I really needed a break and I’m sure everyone who works can relate. Although I must say that having my favorite co-worker in my office for a couple of days made it a lot less terrible. We had fun and I wish, she wasn’t in a different office. (Heyyyy girl, I know you’re reading. ;* ) But I know how bad it is not to have a job, so I should probably stop complaining. All is good.

Enjoy the rest of summer, get prepared for beautiful fall, eat without regrets, go on a shopping spree, put together a fun playlist, spend a whole day in bed, play some oldschool games, buy some flowers for your room, inhale the smell of fresh sheets, make yourself some microwave popcorn, make someone smile, call an old friend and have a great August.

Tons of love,
Hailey 

Portland Oregon

Lovely life
♥ my bed vacation time  new phone  fun party nights  meeting new great people  when women keep their name after getting married  seeing my friends happy  leaving work early  Netflix all day everyday  my new favorite McDonalds meal  fun photo shoots  skyping with my former au pair family  dates with friends  having the house to myself  Supergirl  Beautiful Minds magazine  burgers  fresh sheets ♥  visiting my grandparents  a good breakfast  my friend having her baby  Chicago Fire  lazy days  Chrissi Teigen getting blocked by Trump  eating yummy Chinese Food until feeling sick  reconnecting with my brother  vacation plans  cute babies  meeting with lovies after a long time  junk food  when other people cook for me ♥ fresh flowers 

Songs I love
Liam Payne feat. Quavo – Strip That Down
Hailee Steinfeld – Most Girls
♪  David Guetta feat. Justin Bieber – 2U

Interesting articles and videos
Die 15 häufigsten Bürolügen // 17 Reasons Why Your High School Best Friends Will Be Your BFFs For Life // The Men Who Never Have to Grow Up // 22 Enchanting Towns Around The World That Look Like An Actual Fairytale Setting // 56 Everyday Things We All Do That Are Actually Pretty Gross // Hotpants sollen an Schulen verboten werden? Aber das Problem haben doch die Männer! // Top 10 Places to See in Bonn, Germany

My July posts
Goodbye June 2017 // Mixtape #20 – Summer 2017 // Photography: Copenhagen

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Liebster Award

Liebster AwardI’ve been absolutely terrible with blogging and I honestly feel bad about it. I miss it a lot but just can’t motivate myself, most of the time. Ever since I started working like actual adults do, I simply fail at writing outside of work. I really need to figure this out and I thought, I’ll get back into the groove with answering some questions about myself.

I’ve been nominated for the Liebster Award several times and they’ve been piling up for a while, so I thought I’ll start with answering questions from two very lovely ladies. Tina from Tea is for Tina nominated me ages ago and she probably thought I forgot, but I didn’t. Tina is a great blogger, a super nice person and her #LNBchat is the best. The other awesome person is Vivian aka VivWrites. Unfortunately, she doesn’t blog because I’m sure she’d be great at it, but she’s too busy writing successful books. But do make sure to catch her in a Twitter chat cause it’s always great fun. Thank you lovies for thinking of me. I highly appreciate it and yeah, I just love answering questions about myself.

The rules for the Liebster Award are pretty simple, give 11 random facts about you, answer the 11 questions given to you, come up with 11 new ones and tag 11 other people who should share some information about themselves.

11 Random Facts about myself

01. I refuse to use the calendar on my phone.
02. It took me four turns to get my driver’s license, cause of my nerves.
03. I love the sound of rain.
04. I hate underwear.
05. I haven’t had my natural hair color since I was 12.
06. Nick Crater was my teenage crush.
07. I hate the smell of coffee and wine.
08. My phone and I are inseparable.
09. I collect post cards.
10. I am terrible with plants.

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11 Questions from Tina

01. How did you choose your blog name?
I’m not even sure. I started off with using “365 tries to make it right” but at some point I wanted something more fitting. “The Undateable Girl’s Diary” is definitely a little self-mockery because I’ve been single forever plus me and guys are just always pretty complicated. And since I write about my life, I thought the name was fitting. People are sweet to tell me that I’m not undateable though, but I’m pretty sure there is a little truth in it.

02. What is your biggest achievement this year so far?
I started my first real job and I’m really good at it. I doesn’t make me 100% happy, but it’s better than doing nothing and it’s a step in the right direction. And I get to meet lots of lovely people and write their stories, which is amazing.

03. Are you usually late, early or on time?
I tend to be more on the late side. Sometimes, I feel like I couldn’t be on time, even if my life depended on it. It’s actually not a great quality and I get so annoyed when I have to wait for others and yes, I know that it’s totally unfair. I’m pretty on time for work though.

04. Who would you call first if you won the lottery?
Maybe nobody and just immediately start travelling the world, before people start asking for money. But I guess I couldn’t keep it to myself, so I’d probably call my mom.

05. Do you have any phobias?
I used to have arachnophobia cause spiders are just absolutely disgusting, but it has gotten a lot better, in the last few years. I used to scream, cry, was unable to move and all that comes with. Not having my bed close to a wall works wonders.

06. Who is someone you admire, and why?
I definitely admire people who risk their lives for others or who work tirelessly to make other people have a better life. In general good-hearted people, who do a lot for others.

07. Are you a planner or spontaneous?
I really wish I was spontaneous, but I’m just not. Sure, on rare occasions I am but it doesn’t happen really often. I like to plan everything in advance with lists, calendars and all, so make sure to schedule an appointment with me, if you want to hang out.

08. What is the first thing you notice about people?
If they have a good sense of humor. I’m pretty much a loud-mouth and things just slip out. If you don’t get irony and sarcasm, we won’t get along very well.

09. Who would play you in a film about your life?
Hopefully someone like Jennifer Lawrence. She’s amazing. Beautiful, talented, down to earth and definitely outspoken and clumsy just like me. I couldn’t think of anyone better to play me.

10. Do you have any bad habits?
Oh please, who doesn’t?!  I’m just trying to figure out which ones to share with you. I tend to leave my water bottles standing around without the lid on and I often end up with a wet carpet. I grind my teeth in my sleep. I can be super messy. And I could share hundreds more with you, but I rather not.

11. Tea?
Yes, please. I can’t even stand the smell of coffee.

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11 Questions from Viv

01. What book got you hooked on your favorite genre?
Not exactly sure what my favorite genre is. I love lots of different books and it’s hard to choose.

02. Best ice cream flavour?
Lemon – forever and always.

03. If you could do any profession, which one and why?
There is only one thing I want to do and that’s being a journalist. Gladly, it’s what I’m currently doing and I’m pretty sure it’s what I am best at. I’ve gone over so many other options of things I could do, but nothing makes me as happy as taking pictures, meeting people and telling their stories.

04. Favorite animal in the wild?
Dolphins, which I have actually seen in the wild, and monkeys. Chimpanzees are just the cutest.

05. What was your weirdest dream ever?
Unfortunately, I’m pretty bad at remembering dreams. Ever since I started my job, I constantly dream about work which definitely stresses me out a lot. I remember sleeping over at a friends’ house when we were teenagers and the next morning she told me that I was saying funny things like “I get so hot when I see him” but I still don’t know what that was about. I always tell myself that I should write down what I remember after waking up, but I never do.

06. Do you play an instrument, if so what?
I can play a little piano but I prefer using my voice as an instrument. That usually works a lot better.

07. Favorite type of holiday: city trip, beach, active?
I’m pretty much open to anything. I don’t know when was the last time I went on a beach holiday and I don’t even know if it’s my thing. I rarely even just lay in the sun because I get bored too easily, so just beach may not be enough for me. I prefer exploring new cities, do a lot of sightseeing and touristy things, roam the streets. So yeah, I guess city trips.

08. Ideal night in?
Those are my specialty and I definitely do them most of the time. I honestly don’t need much. Just my bed, pj’s, Netflix and maybe some chips or microwave popcorn.

09. Most cherished collectors item?
I honestly don’t know if I actually have something that fits this category. I have a big Disney Princesses snow globe figurine that my mom bought me at Disneyland that is pretty special to me. I can’t really think of anything else right now.

10. Best character trait
I’m definitely a very caring person who always helps others and I do a lot for the people I care about. I’m also very honest. Not everyone can handle it, but being fake is just not my thing. And I definitely have a good sense of humor

11. Ultimate life goal?
I would still love to have a book published, get a Ph.D and travel the whole world. Sounds easy, right?!

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11 Bloggers I nominate

Kirsty Rose from Me, Cupcakes and Tea
Caroline from In Time for T
Shelby Amess from Breakfast at Shelby’s
Sophie from Sophie’s Notebook
Sarah from Sunshine Sarah xo
Teri from helloteri
Essex Girl from The Essex Girl
Beth from Beth Hill
Laura from Inside Laura’s Head
Ana from La Bella Vita
Sarah from Sarah in Wonderland

11 Questions for you to answer

01. What is your favorite flower?
02. Do you collect anything?
03. Aside from pets and people, if your house was on fire and you had a few minutes to save something, what would it be?
04. If you like costumes, what would you love to dress up as?
05. What is your favorite season?
06. Do you believe in horoscopes?
07. What was your favorite childhood toy?
08. What’s your favorite candy?
09. Which Disney character would you want as a friend?
10. What’s on the top of your travel bucket list?
11. Any secret you would like to share?

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Photography: Copenhagen

In April, I finally got the chance to visit the beautiful city of Copenhagen. I have a friend living there and it was great to see her again and to explore a place I’ve never been before. Of course, I always have a camera with me, so I want to share some pictures with you. I’ve already written a post with things to do in Copenhagen and trust me, there is plenty. Now, I just want to show you the beauty of it. Let me know if there is anything you want to know or if you’ve been there yourself. I always like to exchange experiences with others. I had a great visit, the people everywhere were really nice and you will have zero problems getting around, if you know english. And as a German, I actually understood more Danish than expected. It is definitely a city worth visiting and I hope these pictures will give you a small glimpse of it.

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Mixtape #20 – Summer 2017

It is July, summer is in full bloom and I feel like everyone needs the perfect soundtrack for these hot days. I love cruising around with good music turned up and I must say, I’m actually loving a lot of the new tunes on the market, which doesn’t happen too often, anymore. Here is a list with all my favorites blasting from my speakers and I highly recommend that you put together your own. Most of these songs are pretty new and a few are a bit older but still work for this season. I wish you all a great summer, make sure to make a lot of new memories and please let me know what you’re currently listening to.

Mixtape summer 2017

01. Luis Fonsi feat. Justin Bieber & Daddy Yankee – Despacito
02. Little Mix feat. Stormzy – Power
03. Hailee Steinfeld – Most Girls
04. Liam Payne feat. Quavo – Strip That Down
05. Rita Ora – Your Song
06. Jason Derulo feat. Niki Minaj & Ty Dolla $ign – Swalla
07. Miley Cyrus – Malibu
08. Jonas Blue feat. William Singe – Mama
09. Enrique Iglesias feat. Descemer Bueno, Zion & Lennox – Subeme La Radio
10. Kungs feat. Jamie N Commons – Don’t You Know
11. Robin Schulz feat. James Blunt – OK
12. DJ Khaled feat. Justin Bieber, Lil Wayne, Quavo & Chance the Rapper – I’m The One
13. Major Lazer feat. Busy Signal, The Flexican & FS Green – Watch Out For This (Bumaye)
14. Selena Gomez – Bad Liar
15. Alice Merton – No Roots
16. The Weeknd feat. Daft Punk – Starboy
17. G-Eazy & Kehlani – Good Life
18. Little Mix feat. Machine Gun Kelly – No More Sad Songs
19. Madcon – Got A Little Drunk Last Night
20. DNCE feat. Niki Minaj – Kissing Strangers
21. DJ Khaled feat. Rihanna & Bryson Tiller – Wild Thoughts
22. Lady Gaga – The Cure
23. David Guetta feat. Nicki Minaj & Lil Wayne – Light My Body Up
24. Clean Bandit feat. Sean Paul & Ann-Marie – Rockabye
25. Little Mix – Touch
26. Jax Jones feat. Demi Lovato & Stefflon Don – Instruction
27. Rihanna feat. Drake – Work
28. David Guetta feat. Justin Bieber – 2U
29. Alan Walker – Faded
30. Fifth Harmony feat. Gucci Mane – Down

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Goodbye June 2017

Goodbye June,

and hello July. I can’t believe half a year is already over. Isn’t that crazy? That also means I’ve had my job for six months and I’m not sure if I wanna say “wow, already 6 months” or “wow, only six months”. Most of the time, I’m so exhausted, I feel like I’ve been working forever. Can’t wait for my summer vacation, starting July 26th. It’s only two weeks but they are much needed. And just looking at my stack of articles I wrote in six months, I know I’ve been working a lot. But it’s just the only thing I want to do. It also led me to meeting the winners of Germany’s Next Topmodel, who I was writing about for four months, and that was pretty cool. So yeah, it has its perks but I still need a break.

The weather has been great for the most part which is kinda annoying when you have to work. But for things like open air concerts  or ice cream dates there is nothing better. Me and some friends went to a 90s open air party and it was super fun. Best music ever! It’s also good for when you have a dog over. Grandma’s cutie stayed with us for a few days and we are just great pals. I loved having him around, going for walks, taking him to work with me and I was so sad when he had to go back home. I honestly thought about getting a dog, as so many times before, but it just wouldn’t make sense. It’s a huge responsibility, my family can’t really help me with it and I don’t know where my life will head in the next few years, so I can’t make myself dependent on a dog. I need to find one to occasionally borrow.

I spent a weekend with my bff and it was lovely, as usual. We just chilled, watched movies and ate lots of junk food food. Exactly my kind of weekend. Me and some friends threw one of our girls a surprise baby shower and I loved seeing her so happy. The baby is due in three weeks and I’m very excited to meet the little girl. There were also some extra holidays, so an occasional chill day was a must. I managed to visit my grandparents, watched a lot of movies and TV shows and made great memories with my friends. So overall, I would say it was a pretty good month and I hope that summer has more fun in store for me.

Let your skin be kissed by the sun, dance through the rain, spread a little kindness everyday, eat ice cream and enjoy it, instead of counting calories, pick your favorite songs for the summer and listen to them non-stop, flirt, cruise around with your windows down, eat lots of watermelon, let the little things in life make you happy, walk around barefoot, take lots of selfies and just have a great summer.

Tons of love,
Hailey 

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Lovely life
having a few days off summer the game UNO fun parties ice cream holiday’s House of Cards season 5 having grandma’s dog around when grandma gives you money the Disney Emoji game OITNB season 5 90s open air baby shower when your favorite contestant in a show wins finally meeting the GNTM girls chocolate pizza grocery shopping spending time with my bff when people love your work We finally know who AD is Spencer Hastings gay marriage will finally be established in Germany Pad Thai Little Mix sunshine having great co-workers positive feedback rain after a really hot day memes

Songs I love
Little Mix feat. Stormzy – Power
Miley Cyrus – Malibu
Jonas Blue feat. William Singe – Mama

Interesting articles and videos
Dear Ariana, I’m so sorry I ever questioned your courage. // Eine Frau ohne Mann ist wie ein Mann ohne Penis // Bored Hotel Guest Starts Making “Challenges” For Housekeepers, And They Respond With These Notes // 20+ Rare Historic Photos That You Probably Haven’t Seen Before // 38 secrets you need to know, if you want to understand all Germans // 28 Memes You’ll Laugh At If Carbs Are Your Best Friend // Just A Bunch Of Funny Tweets People With Vaginas Will Appreciate // Historische Bundestagsentscheidung – Ehe für alle bekommt deutliche Mehrheit

My June posts
Goodbye May 2017 // How You Make Me Lose Interest In A Guy

My June Instagrams
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How You Make Me Lose Interest In A Guy

Being single can be hard. Dating can be hard. Just finding one guy to have a decent conversation with seems like rocket science to me. I’ve been out of the dating game for many years because I chose to be. Sure, it can be fun but to me, it’s so much work and more often than not a total waste of time. Where I live, I don’t really meet any guys who want the same in life as I do and at this point, I’m definitely not ready to make any compromises. So yeah, it’s complicated.

Occasionally, I meet someone, probably more likely on Tinder than in real life, and maybe I decide to give someone an actual chance. I’ve heard friends and family tell me that my expectations are way too high, that I’m superficial, I’m super complicated and so on. Honestly, I don’t agree. Sure, when I swipe through Tinder, I want to like the face but no, it’s not on top of the list. Attraction doesn’t just have something to do with how a person looks. And believe me, I haven’t dated one David Beckham after another. I WISH!

So sometimes, I think a guy is good-looking and sounds interesting at first. He may not be perfect, not my type whatever but well, I have my moments when I actually give someone a chance. I met a guy on Tinder (you may remember from THIS post) and for once, I wasn’t bored after 10 minutes. So I thought I’d give him a chance and not rule him out at the first mistake he makes. It was also a more complicated situation because we couldn’t meet in person, since he’s not in the country until October. So plenty of time to get to know each other, beforehand. Throughout the texting, more and more things happened that made me roll my eyes and I kept thinking “give him a chance, it’s different over text than in person” but I do think that the way someone writes does tell you a bit about how he is. And man, there are just so many things that you should just not do if you want a chance with me.

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01. When he doesn’t have anything interesting to say about himself
Sometimes, it starts out ok. I mean, if I don’t give up after 10 minutes there must be something interesting there. You definitely get me with travelling. I feel like people who have stepped out of their familiar surroundings to explore the world are more interesting. They’ve seen new places, met new people and are much more open-minded than others. All of these aspects I value. But there is only so much you can say about your travels. Unless you travel 365 days a year you gotta come up with more to talk about. Hobbies, TV-shows, books, your job – anything that tells me more about you. One topic isn’t enough.

02. When he doesn’t ask interesting questions
I want to feel like someone really wants to get to know me. If I repeatedly tell you to ask me whatever you want and you can’t really come up with a simple question like “What is your favorite color?” do you even want to get to know me? And it doesn’t count if you ask “And you?” after giving me a not very satisfying answer to one of my questions.

03. When he asks stupid questions
Trust me, stupid questions exist, or at least stupid moments to ask them. The thing is, I don’t really have anything to hide so you can basically ask me what you want, but when we talk about relationships and the only thing you can come up with is “When was the last time you has sex?” after me telling you it’s been a few years since I’ve been involved with someone, it’s just weird. Seriously, what the hell does it matter if it was three days or three years ago?! But I guess a guys’ brain just works differently.

04. When he obviously knows nothing about irony or sarcasm
You cannot be with me if you don’t get a simple joke, a tease, anything. It’s difficult enough to have friends that you have to explain everything to but my boyfriend? No thank you. I can’t deal with it. This may sound mean but there is some truth in the saying that irony is the humor of intelligent people. Sorry not sorry.

05. When his spelling is absolutely terrible
I know that people often text differently than they talk or write but some things are just not acceptable. I’m a journalist so basic grammar and spelling skills is something I need a man to have. Afer a while it gets obvious if someone is just lazy, has problems hitting the right keys or simply doesn’t know how to spell. The word statue is NOT that difficult. And if you’re planning on travelling to Hawaii, at least learn how to spell it.

06. When he doesn’t have the balls to admit to people that we met on Tinder
It’s the 21st century so it’s not a crime to use apps to meet people. If you can’t tell people that we’ve met on Tinder grow some balls. And also don’t give me the typical “I already deleted Tinder. I hardly used it anyway. I’m not like that.” If you downloaded the app and swiped your way through, ending up finding me, you used the app and it’s ok. I don’t care if you just wanna hook up or find true love. It’s not illegal to have a profile. So chill.

07. When he only gives you short answers
I want to get to know you so tell me something about you. I know that many guys are not huge fans of texting but if it’s the only way to communicate, make an effort. But maybe it’s just because he doesn’t have more to say.

08. When he’s just being weird
When you text him something like “I hate you a bit for not having to work tomorrow” *insert wink emoji* and he just replies with “I can gladly live with that” and just leaves it at that for like 2 days, it’s weird. I mean, are you for real? I’m definitely getting you the book “Flirting for dummies” as a Christmas present.

09. When he tells you he doesn’t read
True story: I get a travel pic from inside some building I couldn’t recognize. Turns out it’s a popular library. DUDE, I don’t care about the freaking windows, I wanna see beautiful shelves full of books, people reading etc. And then when I ask about books you tell me that you may have read one or two of the Harry Potter books and that’s it? Cause you can’t do it all? I’ve once dated someone who never read a book in his life and I swore to myself that I would never do that again.

10. When he thinks it’s enough to send a bunch of pictures
Again, travelling only covers it for so long. Oh great, pic #52 from somewhere. It’s just not enough. Send me a picture and tell me a story, otherwise I don’t care anymore after the first five pictures.

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Goodbye May 2017

Goodbye May,

and hello official summer aka June. I actually feel ridiculous for writing this post because I’ve been such a terrible blogger and this is obviously just an easy post to write. Last month, aside from the monthly round-up, I managed to write one actual post. ONE. There was so much going on and I was super busy or stressed out most of the time. And since I write so much for work, I kinda lose my motivation to do it in my spare time. I really miss it though. It’s not like I don’t have any ideas, I’m just always busy and tired. And if I do have a day with nothing important to do, I just hang around doing nothing. It has got to change. I miss blogging, I miss Twitter, I miss reading other blogs, sharing some blog-love… I uploaded like 5 pics to Instagram in a whole month. I’m surprised that I still have followers. I definitely need to figure out a plan to get back on track.

So what happened in May? One of my absolute favorite people in the world got married and I was maid of honor for the first time ever. It still makes me incredibly happy. It was a lovely day but I just had a ton of things to organize, especially for the bachelorette party I threw her. We had a super fun 90s party and I don’t know when was the last time I laughed so hard. I mean, I literally gave it my all. Blew up condoms over my head, gave her a lap dance and drank A LOT. It was hilarious and even though the whole planning was super stressful  (because GIRLS), it was worth seeing everyone have a good time. The wedding was super nice as well and I actually got all dressed up for it. I think some people were actually surprised not seeing me in black leggings and my hair in a bun for once.

I got a new car because in the middle of chaos, cars love to give up on me, so I had to find a new one. I guess you need to say a new old one cause I definitely cannot afford a brand new car. Gladly, my dad helped a lot with it and we managed to find one I really like. Despite the fact that between paying and picking it up someone scratched the door, I like it a lot. That door annoys the hell out of me though but I’ll take care of it later.

This all may not sound like there was a lot going on but trust me, there was. I mean, you still have to do things like clean, or you go out to dinner with friends, catch up on your TV-shows and sometimes, I work for 10 hours and then there is just no time or energy left. But right now, I’m enjoying the third day off in a row and I have two more to go. Little breaks like this help a lot to power up and I hope I get some blog stuff done. Five posts a month would be a good start. I should just post the stories I write for work but their all in German and not really what I blog about. I just have to work on my organization.

I hope everyone has a lovely summer. We’ve definitely already had incredibly hot days and I ate ice cream, wore sandals, got a light sunburn and I love it. Except for one weekend, June is already packed with fun and I hope that it goes on like this. As much as I love chilling and as often as I just feel completely exhausted, having fun with friends is priceless and I’m glad that I’m not too depressed to leave the house anymore, like I’ve been last year, many times. I just love complaining about adulting but it’s all #firstworldproblems so all is good.

Enjoy your life as much as you can, even when the world we’re living in makes it harder, each day. Take care of yourselves, tell others that you love them and stay safe.

Tons of love,
Hailey 

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Lovely life
having extra days off cause of holiday’s  a clean room  summertime  ordering in  fresh sheets  being complimented on your work  going braless  lovely weddings  kid movies  meeting interesting people  quality time with my besties  90s parties  successful bachelorette parties  getting dolled up for special occasions  my new car  leaving work early  naps  Eurovision Song Contest  eating cake batter  crazy party nights  laughing from the bottom of your heart  organizing  breakfast  when your Topmodel girls actually win  selfmade beef and mango burritos  when you manage to fix something on your car by yourself  touching people with my writing  chill days  canola fields  Instagram follow threads 

Songs I love
♪ Luis Fonsi feat. Daddy Yankee and Justin Bieber – Despacito
Salvador Sobral – Amor Pelos Dois
Harry Styles – Kiwi

Interesting articles and videos
15 Things Men Don’t Understand About Women // 18 Strange German Food Habits That Americans Will Never Understand // “Mit Kopftuch leider nicht” – was ich als Muslima auf Jobsuche erlebte // 18 Gross Behaviors Every Woman Secretly Does

My May posts
Goodbye April 2017 // Eurovision Song Contest 2017

My May InstagramsMy Instagram

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