And the Grammy goes to… – 2016 Recap

Grammys

It’s been two days since the Grammy’s aired and people are still talking about it, as they should. Honestly, I read a lot of comments about the show being boring but I don’t really agree. I mean, these are not the MTV awards where Miley Cyrus get’s naked every year. I thought it was a really good mix of popular artists, great performances and a handful of surprising moments. My favorite thing though was to watch Camera 2 on the official Grammy homepage, to see what’s going on in the audience. So here is my opinion on this year’s Grammy’s.

Fashion
The outfits on the red carpet weren’t exactly jaw-dropping but I think that’s a good thing. I’m a little over all the over-the top arrivals because I want it to be about the music and not about who wore less fabric than somebody else. Ciara! And that lady in her silver burlesque-like piece of nothing. The Grammy’s are a not wild, they’re a little more conventional and majorly important for the music industry. Therefore, we saw a lot of black on the red carpet and since I’m a huge fan of being dressed in black, I support that. And it does look great on a red carpet that is actually red. Carrie Underwood, Adele, Demi Lovato, Bella Hadid, Alessandra Ambrosio all did it and all looked absolutely stunning. It may be a safe choice but you can never really go wrong with a pretty black dress.

A few ladies were a little more into colors and left great impressions. Tori Kelly looked stunning in green and she truly is such a beautiful and talented girl. Ellie Goulding looked cute and so did Chrissi Teigen and John Legend who are the ultimate relationship goals. I have to say, my highlight were Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez. I am a fan of celebrating friendship and they looked absolutely fabulous while doing it. Selena stunned in blue glitter and also in red satin during the show. And Taylor, I want to steal that pink skirt. It did remind me of her 2015 mermaid-ish dress, which I loved as well. Although I do think she should eat a little more, she wore my favorite outfit. I wasn’t a huge fan of Justin Bieber’s blonde hair but his cute brother made up for it and this may surprise people, but I didn’t hold my breath when Beyoncé entered the stage. I think she can do so much better.

Grammy

Performances
I have to say, I’m still a little bummed that Rihanna didn’t make it to the stage because I was really excited to see what she does. Of course, I was also looking forward to the lovely Adele but what can I say, we all heard it. Someone messed up that performance. She handled it like a pro though. Of course I loved Taylor opening the show because I’m a fan and I didn’t quite get what she was upset about, afterward. I was watching the audience camera and wished, I could perfectly read lips. Kendrick Lamar and The Weeknd of course slayed but I didn’t expect anything else from these two talents. Lady Gaga was on point, Hamilton was great and all the duets were amazing. Tori Kelly and James Bay should definitely record something together, Sam Hunt and Carrie Underwood performed well but nobody cared, since everyone was busy analyzing Sam’s hottie potential, and Ellie’s and Andra’s mashup was awesome. I had goosebumps when Demi Lovato sang for Lionel and when Little Big Town performed “Girl Crush,” I was almost in tears and completely fell in love with the song. I haven’t heard it before and now, I cannot stop listening to it. I could go on and on like this because all performances were pretty amazing and it was a great mix.

Kendrick Lamar Grammys

Awards
I don’t think that there were a lot of surprises there. In my opinion, with artists like Taylor, Kendrick, The Weeknd, Ed Sheeran and Bruno Mars winning, it was definitely a successful night. Of course, afterward people tend to discuss who deserved it more etc, but in the end, they are all successful artist who work hard. They love what they do and they put a lot into their albums and songs. Of course we like some songs better than others but it doesn’t give someone the right to say someone else deserves it more. Forget about your personal taste because they all embrace and express art in a different way and deserve respect for it. I was surprised that Meghan Trainor won though, but her tearful speech was cute. I would cry my heart out, as well. And about that speech that Taylor gave, she’s right and I’m glad she said what she said. I mean let’s be honest, Taylor Swift never needed someone like Kanye West to become famous. She already was. And I don’t think there is anyone else in the business who’s happier for other winners than she is. Being a sore loser is just not cool.

General statements

  • Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift are friendship goals.
  • Adele is a big competition when it comes to fangirling.
  • Why don’t the cameras show people’s exes during their performance? I mean, we all want to see that.
  • I’m glad that not a single artist got totally over-hyped during this show. Everyone did an awesome job.
  • When everyone in the audience stood up, Bruno Mars disappeared.
  • We all want to know why Rihanna really cancelled.
  • How long will it take for Kanye West to respond?
  • I feel like Meghan Trainor has been in the business for too long to count as a newcomer.
  • I shake my booty to Pitbull’s and Robin Thicke’s music, but they creep me out.
  • Sam Hunt is hot but shouldn’t wear suits that look like a red sock got accidentally mixed up with a white suit in the laundry.
  • Tyrese Gibson’s daughter must have had a great time sitting on Taylor Swift’s lap, watching a performance and taking pictures with her and Selena.
  • I’m surprised by what counts as rock music, nowadays.

(All pictures were taken from http://www.grammy.com where you can also find the full list of winners.)

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10 Things That Will Help You Survive V-Day

It’s that one day of the year where people who are single are pitied or pity themselves. Ok, maybe it happens on Christmas, as well. And at weddings. And sometimes on a lazy Sunday. But that’s about it because on the other 360 days of the year, we’re perfectly fine with living a happy single life. Since I’m an expert on being alone on Valentine’s Day, here are some tips to get through it. If you’re single and don’t give a damn about V-Day, good for you. I’m a little cheesy like that. I’d like a card and a nice date night, but only if you’re also nice the rest of the year.

Valentine's Cards

1. Get super drunk the night before, so you’ll have a hangover from hell.
Of course, this works best when it’s a weekend and since this year’s V-Day is a Sunday, pop some bottes. I often end up hungover on February 14th because by birthday is on the 13th. This year, I’m planning a get-super-drunk-pajama-party which will probably lead to a hangover. Since I’m one of these people who does not wish for a partner next to me when I feel sick, this is a good plan.

2. Make yourself a present.
We all deserve to be pampered, once in a while and there is no harm in treating yourself to something nice. It doesn’t have to be big because if we had a partner, it wouldn’t be about how big the present is, either. It’s always the thought that counts, right? Unfortunately, since my birthday is close by, I usually lose out on V-Day. Although thinking about it, if I hadn’t dated douchebags, it would’ve probably been different. Bring me chocolate, a rose and your Netflix password, and you’re safe.

3. Eat all the junkfood you can find.
I am a huge lover of food. I love healthy things and of course, the unhealthy ones, as well. When you’re single on V-Day and it makes you a little miserable, just eat whatever you want. Pizza, chocolate, candy, ice cream and whatever else you can think of. Food just has this magical power of consoling someone who doesn’t feel great. I have mozzarella sticks waiting for me.

4. Make plans with friends.
If you have a good time with lovely people, you won’t feel alone. Last year, I remember having the best day ever, just roaming around the city with two friends of mine. The best part was to actually get photobombed by a couple. Oh the irony. Make plans with your single friends (I have like two) or with those who couldn’t care less about a holiday that makes the greeting card industry never go broke. Luckily, my friends don’t care about it.

5. Make a list of all the reasons why you’re happy to be single.
On those rare occasions you question your single life, remind yourself of all the reasons why it’s great to be by yourself. If you’re willingly single like me, list all the reasons why you decided to turn away from love, for a while. Weeks. Months. Years. Reason number one: I am awesome and I deserve someone who is equally awesome, which is super hard to find. So instead of dealing with more jerks, I’ll just stay by myself.

6. Binge-watch Disney movies or your favorite show.
For some reason, watching Disney movies is my answer to everything. Whatever the situation is, it helps. The music, the characters, the cute animals – I could do it all day, everyday. But if you’re not so much into Disney, which makes you a super strange person to me, there are enough TV-shows or movies that you can watch, as well. It may be the perfect day to finally get your own Netflix account. Admit it, you were thinking about it, anyway.

7. Go on a date.
If you’re crazy like that, you’ll go on a 1st-Valentine’s-Day-Date. Man that sounds awkward but I’m sure that some people do it. If you don’t want to be alone, I’m sure you’ll find someone on Tinder who will willingly get together with you, last minute.

8. Tell the people in your life that you love them.
Just because you don’t have a partner, doesn’t mean you can’t spread some love. I mean, it’s not cool when you just do it this one time a year (same goes for relationships) but if you just love to spread love, do it. I wish, I would’ve though about this earlier. Well, maybe I’ll send out some hungover texts to my babes.

9. Have a normal day.
If it’s not a weekend, you don’t really have a choice anyway. And you’re not gonna take a day off, right? Just do everything you would normally do. Work, cook, go shopping and just don’t care about what day it is.

10. Watch the movie Valentine’s Day.
I mean, why not? Unless you just feel like crying when you watch other romantic relationships, this is probably not a good idea. It’s not the greatest movie in the world but I think that all the different stories are pretty cute. I am actually in this movie, disguised as Jessica Biel playing Kara Monahan, my future self. I’m pretty much already her, minus the job thing. Like Kara likes to say: “My closest relationship is with my Blackberry, Thank God it vibrates.” One of my favorite quotes, ever. And I really want an anti-Valentine’s party with a Piñata and all. In the end though, even Kara finds someone she actually gives a chance so there is hope for me.

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Mixtape #9 – Female Power

Mixtape #9 FemalePower

I am a strong woman and I’m a huge fan of other strong and powerful women. For every step we take, we should have an anthem to empower us, even more. Trust me when I say, you’ll feel much more confident when you walk into a test or job interview etc. when you spent all morning listening to Beyoncé tell you that girls run the world. When you have a bad day, let Katy remind you of the fact that you’re a firework and the best way to get over a breakup? Sing “Since You’ve Been Gone” from the top of your lungs and see what happens. I think music is a great way to lift you up and it can help in all kinds of situation.

1. Beyoncé – Formation
2. Adele – Rolling In The Deep
3. Demi Lovato – Skyscraper
4. Taylor Swift – Bad Blood
5. Ellie Goulding – Burn
6. Shania Twain – That Don’t Impress Me Much
7. Beyoncé – Who Run The World (Girls)
8. Britney Spears – Work Bitch
9. Katy Perry – Firework
10. Iggy Azalea – Work
11. Fifth Harmony – Worth It
12. Alicia Keys – Girl On Fire
13. Jesse J feat. Big Sean – Wild
14. Ciara – Like A Boy
15. Ariana Grande – Break Free
16. Destiny’s Child – Independent Women
17. Rihanna – Bitch Better Have My Money
18. Carrie Underwood – Blown Away
19. Pink – U And Ur Hand
20. Iggy Azalea feat. Charli XCX – Fancy
21. Christina Aguilera – Fighter
22. Aaliyah – More Than A Woman
23. The Pussycat Dolls – When I Grow Up
24. Beyoncé – Single Ladies
25. Meredith Brooks – Bitch
26. En Vogue – Free Your Mind
27. Lady Gaga – Born This Way
28. Tina Turner – What’s Love Got To Do With It
29. Jennifer Lopez – Love Don’t Cost A Thing
30. Kelly Clarkson – Since You Been Gone

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Relationships – Questions From A Blogger Chat

A little while ago I’ve discovered so-called blogger chats on Twitter. Every chat has a host and a hashtag which helps to communicate with other people. A couple of Sunday’s ago, I joined the chat by the lovely Freda aka @BloggerBees, who helps people to support their blogs. The host comes up with questions and posts them for everyone to discuss. The topic was “Hotline Bling – Relationship Reflection,” the hashtag for this chat was #chattybees and it’s also the same # for future chats. I loved it a lot and engaged with a lot of girls from all over the world. This topic was totally up my alley, even though I’m terrible at relationships and consider myself to be undateable. To describe me in relationships, I like to use the words of Alice:

“I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it.”

Alice in Wonderland

1. What’s your current relationship status? Are you happy with it? Why or why not?
I’ve been single for what seems like forever and I’m definitely ok with it.  Because of having been by myself for so long, I don’t even know if I could make a relationship work, even if I wanted to. Maybe if it’s the right guy who just blows me away and even then, it’s not going to be easy. If it ever does happen, I will probably die of a heart attack and everyone around me, as well. I like being single and since I don’t want to get married or have children, I’m in no rush to change that. A few days of the year, I wish it was different, though.

2. Have you ever tried online dating? How did it go?
My BFF made me sign up on Tinder, but it was just for the fun of swiping. I’m already over it. Tinder has no guys for me. Maybe if I move to big city, it would make more sense. Currently, I know like half the people on there (ok, I exaggerated), and I wasn’t really feeling the rest. And then they also lie or expect me to hand over my phone number after 3 minutes of chatting and I’m just not having any of that. One guy seemed ok and after a while, he even made me hand out my number. But then he seemed too desperate, and then too annoying and then he just stopped texting and then I was over all of it. After swiping left on almost every single guy within a 30km reach between 25 and 33, there is nobody left to swipe right, anyway.

3. What’s the longest amount of time you’ve been single?
I actually have to do some math. Ummm, I think for six or seven years now but since I’ve never been in an awesome relationship and was always more alone than together with someone, it feels like I’ve been single forever.

4. Do you have deal-breakers? What are they?
I don’t want to date a fitness guy again who orders chicken salad and  diet coke while I’m stuffing my face with pizza. I mean, healthy is good but he has to eat pizza and especially not judge me for doing it. A friend of mine went on a date once and the guy asked her: “Are you sure you want to eat that?” I think she dared to have dessert. Honestly, that would be the moment I leave. I also can’t stand guys who are desperate. Desperate people are so unattractive

5. What’s the worst date you’ve been on?
To be honest, I’m pretty sure I’ve never been on an actual date. By that I mean with someone I don’t really know, that I’ve met somewhere and who asked me out, someone I haven’t kissed before etc. Trust me, it’s different when you suddenly go on a date with a friend. Anyway, I’ve been on one date that I find pretty awful until today. I mean, if the guy can’t even get the tickets but chimes in with a clear “NO” when asked if we wanted a couple’s seat, you can already tell that it’s not going to be an awesome date. If you want the full story, read here: My Worst Date. Although thinking about it, my actual worst date was my  BFF’s date, that I had to join. LONG STORY.

6. What’s the best date you’ve ever been on? Don’t have one yet? Describe your dream date.
Yeah, no perfect dates for me. I’m trying really hard to think of one but if it doesn’t pop into my head right away, it wasn’t that good. If I ever do end up on an actual date, I just hope that I will remember it when someone ask me these kind of questions. A perfect date would be a day full of laughter and feeling safe with someone I don’t even know. Nothing worse than feeling uncomfortable. Dating can be really nerve-wracking but I’m sure that it can also be a beautiful thing.

7. What have you learned from previous relationships?
I learned that I have terrible taste in men and that I should be with someone who lifts me up instead of bringing me down. Man, I alway have such great advice and then I meet someone and forget all about it. I also learned that it’s a good thing to just stay away. It definitely makes my life a lot easier.

8. Give one piece of advice from your experiences that might help someone else.
You are great as you are and you deserve someone who respects and loves you for everything that’s great and also for your flaws. Be yourself! Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not because you want your partner to like you for you. And no matter what happens, don’t ever lose yourself. Nobody is worth it.

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Goodbye January 2016

Oh boy, where did this month go? It definitely went by too fast for me to actually get a lot of things done. I’m slowly getting my motivation back and I’m really trying to work on my life and everything else. I’ll just consider January to be a trial period. I like February a lot better, anyway.

I’ve wanted to start this new category to say goodbye to every month. I used to do a monthly In&Out but I’m not a fan of that, anymore. I want to include updates on my life, songs of the month, pictures I instagrammed, positive happenings etc. Just a little summary of everything.

In case you didn’t notice, I’ve changed my name, once again. I think I’m satisfied now. In case you subscribed to my blog via email, it’s possible that my posts arrive in your spam folder now. Please check! I also changed the way my blog looks and added some bits and pieces, here and there. I really have to take new pictures and learn some more CSS. But for now, I’m happy.

I really hope that you all had a great first month of a new year and if not, it was a trial period. I’m working on getting more organized again, getting out of the house more and most importantly, I’m applying for jobs. So for everyone reading this, that’s all I’m gonna say about it, so stop bugging me with questions. Trust me, if I end up with a cool job, I’ll let you know. And no, I don’t need any comments or help or suggestions when I don’t ask for them. I’m not trying to be rude, it’s just super annoying to answer questions you don’t really have answers to because you’re still trying to get your life into order. Please respect that.

I wish you all a wonderful February, aka. my birthday month, and I hope that you’re in a happy place or will get there, soon.

XO Hailey 

Be Amazing

Lovely life

Spending time with my bff  Trash-TV  Stieg Larsson’s Millenium Trilogy  Khloé Kardashian  blogger chats  audio books for children  Disney Magic Moments  Quizduell  being lazy   new dresses  modeling  low-carb pomegranate pancakes  loving yourself  coffee dates  Pretty Little Liars  Carpool Karaoke  Being your own superhero  facemasks  new diverse Barbie dolls  everything from the 90s 

Songs I love

Selena Gomez – Hands to Myself
 Justin Bieber – Love Yourself
Adele – Remedy

Interesting articles

If You Cheat On Your Partner, You Do Not Love Your Partner. Period. // The Harsh Reality Of What It’s Like To Date An Asshole // Denmark named the world’s best country for women to live in // I Want To Be Single — But With You // Jennifer Lawrence: “Why Do I Make Less Than My Male Co‑Stars?” // I Was a Proud Non-Breeder. Then I Changed My Mind. // What Open Marriage Taught One Man About Feminism // Don’t Underestimate the Pleasures of Buying Stuff // This Is How Paris Hilton Fooled the Entire United States of America // 16 Uncomfortable Feelings That Actually Indicate You’re On The Right Path // See All the New Barbies From Curvy to Tall and Petite // 10 Drunken Moments // Diese 15 deutschen Städte bieten die besten Zukunftsaussichten

My January posts

Oh My Tinder // Harder – Better – Faster – Stronger – 2016 // photography: Hawaii – Big Island // #GirlLove // Mixtape #8 – We Will Rock You // 15 Things That Could Make You A Little Happier // My Birthday Wishlist

My January Instagrams

Instagram January

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